Law and Order

Today we got on the topic of how to handle a battle between your children. Brother Williams said something divine!

 "Don't be the judge or jury in your children's fights" 

When confrontation arises, don't think so much about who is responsible, who's fault it is, or who caused it, but who is affected by the problem.

As much as it is natural to jump in, take sides, and say who is in the wrong, it is so much better to step back, just be present, and allow them to handle the situation. 

Simple prompts can help them along in the handling process, but let them take the lead. 

Rules about rules:

When making "house rules" consider the following: Less is more. Make a few important and specific rules. 

When confronting conflict send i-Messages. no...not from you iPhone. An iMessage is something like this.

"I feel ________ because __________. I would like _________" 

These messages get across more effectively.